10 ways to take control of your day-to-day money


Published  07 September 2022
   2 min read

When you lose a partner you can find yourself thrown in at the deep end. In some cases this can mean having to get to grips with managing your household finances for the first time.

It can seem daunting but here are some steps to help you take control of your money.


Draw up a budget 

A good starting point is to draw up a budget so you have a clear idea of how much you’ve got coming in and going out. It may not sound like the most exciting thing to do but it’s the first step to feeling on top of your finances. The MoneyHelper Budget Planner can help you with this.


Keep a spending diary

If you find you have less cash than you thought, keep a spending diary to see what’s missing from your budget or where you’re overspending. You can either do this manually with pen and paper or with the help of an app or spreadsheet.


Put aside money

Put aside money each month for big expenses such as holidays, Christmas and annual bills so you don’t get caught out by these.


Make use of offers and vouchers

Take advantage of supermarket offers, money-saving vouchers and restaurant discounts. You can find useful tips on websites such as moneysavingexpert.com and https://www.moneyhelper.org.uk/en.


Use comparison sites

Make sure you’re not paying over the odds for insurance or utility bills by using price comparison sites such as uSwitch.comgocompare.com and confused.com.


Pay your bills on time

Pay bills on time to avoid unnecessary fines and damaging your credit record. Also consider paying bills by direct debit – you’ll often get a discount for doing so plus it can help you spread the cost of bills over several months rather than having one big bill every quarter or annually. A direct debit is an instruction you give to your bank or building society to allow a particular organisation to take money from your account on a regular basis.


Make an emergency fund

Build up an emergency fund so you have a buffer against unexpected costs. Saving just £5 a week can build up an emergency fund of £260 a year.


Focus on paying off your debts

Cut the cost of your debts. If you have a loan, mortgage or credit card, check comparison websites to make sure you’re not paying over the odds for these. But also remember to factor in any penalty charges there may be for switching. If you have lots of debts or expensive borrowing, make sure you pay off your priority debts first (the ones that have the most serious consequences if you don’t pay them), then focus on paying off the most expensive ones. Find out more about dealing with debt at MoneyHelper.


Check interest rates on your savings

Ensure your savings are earning the best rates of interest available by using a comparison site such as Moneyfacts.


See if you are entitled to state benefits 

Check you or a member of your family is getting all the state benefits you’re entitled to by using one of the benefits calculators at gov.uk.


Please note that the price comparison websites mentioned in this article are suggestions only, their inclusion in this article does not imply we endorse them.